Japanese Keigo: Honorific Language Reference
Keigo (敬語) is the Japanese system of honorific speech. It has three registers: 尊敬語 (sonkeigo — elevating others), 謙譲語 (kenjōgo — humbling yourself), and 丁寧語 (teineigo — general politeness).
The three types of keigo
尊敬語 (respectful language) elevates the subject — used when talking about or to superiors. 謙譲語 (humble language) lowers the speaker — used when talking about your own actions toward superiors. 丁寧語 (polite language) is neutral politeness (です/ます) — used in most formal situations.
Essential irregular keigo verb pairs
The most important irregular keigo verbs: いる→いらっしゃる (sonkei) / おる (kenjo). する→なさる (sonkei) / いたす (kenjo). 言う→おっしゃる (sonkei) / 申す (kenjo). 食べる/飲む→召し上がる (sonkei) / いただく (kenjo). 行く/来る→いらっしゃる (sonkei) / 参る (kenjo). もらう→(sonkei: none) / いただく (kenjo). あげる→(sonkei: none) / 差し上げる (kenjo). くれる→くださる (sonkei). 見る→ご覧になる (sonkei) / 拝見する (kenjo). 知っている→ご存知です (sonkei) / 存じております (kenjo).
Common mistakes
先生がいただきました (describing teacher eating)
Right先生が召し上がりました
いただく is humble — it lowers the subject. Never use humble forms for someone you are respecting.
ご説明いたします for equal/lower status
RightUse ご説明いたします only with superiors
Keigo used with peers or subordinates sounds stiff or even sarcastic. Context and social hierarchy determine which register to use.
Combining sonkei verb for yourself
RightChoose one register per clause — sonkei for others, kenjo for yourself
Never use 尊敬語 (sonkei) when describing your own actions. おっしゃる is for the other person's speech; 申す is for your own.
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What is the difference between 尊敬語 and 謙譲語?
尊敬語 elevates the subject you are talking about or to (your boss, a customer, a teacher). 謙譲語 lowers yourself when describing your own actions directed at that person. Both show respect — but in opposite directions.
Do I need keigo for JLPT?
Keigo appears from N3 onward. N3 tests basic polite expressions. N2 tests 尊敬語/謙譲語 distinctions. N1 tests nuanced keigo usage in business writing and speeches.